
الماضي
"Gururum yüzünden sevdiğim insanın gitmesine izin verdim. Arkasından bakmadım bile. Bu saçma inat yüzünden yıllarca yalnız kaldım."
النمو
Bu hatadan sonra gururumun hayatımı mahvetmesine izin vermemeyi öğrendim. Artık sevdiklerime hislerimi ertelemeden söylüyorum.
لا توجد تعليقات بعد.
دليل قائم على الأسس النفسية للنجاة من تمزق الارتباط واستعادة التماسك الداخلي. تعلم كيف تحزن دون إضفاء طابع رومانسي على الجرح، وتهدئة الجهاز العصبي، واستعادة نفس أكبر من العلاقة.
الندم الأكثر بقاءً غالباً ليس الكلمات التي نصرخ بها في لحظة غضب، بل تلك التي نبتلعها خوفاً.
يُعتبر الندم عاطفة سلبية، لكن علماء النفس يُقترحون أنه قد يكون أداة قوية للنمو الشخصي.

"I am young and so I don't know much about love but I feel like I genuinely love this guy and I confessed but he didn't like me back. this acually brought us closer and I think I am in love. nobody else has ever made me feel anything since him it been more than a year and I feel empty without him. I love him so much and it hurts so bad knowing that I can never be with him. but id rather that than never be able to see him again."
It's like even though he didn't feel the same way, being around him still feels more meaningful than being with someone else. Being close to him, even if it's not romantic, seems to be what you're holding onto.