
"Dopo una vita passata a soccombere a mio padre, mi pento di non avergli detto quanto mi ha fatto male, quando ancora potevo farlo. Lui stava morendo di cancro, e io non riuscivo a fare altro che pensare a quanto non riuscissi a stargli emotivamente vicino, perché offuscata dalla rabbia. Il senso di sacrificio a cui mi ha abituata fin da piccola mi ha fatto essere lì col corpo, e sentire in colpa dopo, come se non fossi stata una buona figlia. Da quando se ne è andato, tutto il dolore è rimasto a me. Che me ne faccio, però?"
Sembra che tu abbia ancora un sacco di sentimenti contrastanti dentro di te, e che non sia facile per te elaborare il dolore e la rabbia.
Life is a complex tapestry of moments, and sometimes we must accept that our actions, though imperfect, were guided by the best intentions we had at the time.
Een zorgvuldige gids voor het leven met het verdriet, de helderheid en het grenswerk van familie-vervreemding. Leer patronen van verwonding te beoordelen, te stoppen met onderhandelen tegen je eigen veiligheid, and vrede op te bouwen, zelfs als verzoening niet komt.
De meest hardnekkige spijt komt vaak niet voort uit wat we zeiden, maar uit wat we verzwegen uit angst.
Hoewel vaak gezien als negatief, suggereren psychologen dat spijt een van de krachtigste instrumenten is voor persoonlijke ontwikkeling.

"I wish i never touched that song at all"
It's like the song is now tied to a memory you wish you didn't make.

"je regrette de ne pas avoir quitter ma ville plus tot"
C'est comme si vous aviez l'impression d'avoir raté une occasion de changer votre vie.

"I am young and so I don't know much about love but I feel like I genuinely love this guy and I confessed but he didn't like me back. this acually brought us closer and I think I am in love. nobody else has ever made me feel anything since him it been more than a year and I feel empty without him. I love him so much and it hurts so bad knowing that I can never be with him. but id rather that than never be able to see him again."
It's like even though he didn't feel the same way, being around him still feels more meaningful than being with someone else. Being close to him, even if it's not romantic, seems to be what you're holding onto.